When Love Goes Awry

When the emotional bond and trust between couples is eroded or betrayed, there can be deep wounds that can cause retaliation. 

Most couples refrain from retaliation regardless of what caused the breakup. However, it is not uncommon to see revenge or some form of punishment with a breakup, especially when betrayal or mental health issues are involved.

Below are common questions people ask about counselling and their relationship when your relationshp goes awry:

1. What Results Can I Expect from Couples Counselling?

2. How to Know if Couples Therapy Isn’t Working?

3. Signs it is Time to Physically Leave Your Relationship

4. Signs it is Time to Physically Leave Your Relationship

5. What if My Partner Doesn’t Want to Go to Counselling?

6. How to Find a Therapist or Counsellor?

7. 12 Principles for Effective Couples Therapy

8. What is the Most Effective form of Couples Counselling?

An article from Psychology Today, reivews "How Angry Exes Seek Revenge"-The dark sides of love gone wrong, the impacts of this behaviour and healthy strategies to respond.

If you are experiencing difficulty in your relationship or need support to manage a difficult break up, consider couples counselling

In the above video Dr. Michael Dadson on Couples Counselling

Dr. Dadson has a number of academic publications and research that can be found on Academia here. For additional videos with insights into counsellng on an assortment of topics from deperssion and anxiety, to men's issues, trauma, life changes, types of therapy and suicide follow this link to his YouTube channel. 

Visit Dr. Mike Dadson's profile and qualifications at the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors here.

Contact Dr. Mike Dadson here for information on couples counselling.

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How to Stop Gaslighting

 When someone experiences gaslighting for a long time, they may start to doubt their own truths and minimize their trauma. Here's how they can stop self-gaslighting—and start healing.

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To read more about how to stop gaslighting follow this link here.

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Registered Clinical Counsellor

 

If you are searching for a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), in Langley with vast experience in treating trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety or other mental health issues,
visit my profile here.

To contact me for an appointment, visit www.gentlecurrentstherapy.com.

Email Auto-Responses for Your Mental Health

 How to support your mental health with email burnout.

Follow this link to The New York Times.

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What is Trauma Focused Therapy

 

Photo: Susan Wilkinson

Trauma focused therapy in Langley allows individuals who have experienced 
trauma to overcome their anxiety by safely exposing themselves to perceived 
fears.  

Trauma focused approach emerged in response to research 
demonstrating that trauma is common and that it is highly 
correlated with mental health.

Dr. Michael Dadson identifies:

Research has shown that there’s three primary phases, not stages, 

but three primary phases or treatment. All three phases all always active

in therapy but, one phase will be accented or forefront at different times

in treatment. Usually at the beginning of therapy Phase one is more actively

present and towards the end phase three is more present. Dr. Dadson outlines

the 3 phases on his trauma therapy clinic webiste here.

To learn more about trauma and "Trauma Focused Therapy" follow this link.

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Teen Suicide is a Serious Issue

Photo: Dan Meyers 

Parents, teachers, and caregivers can use these tools to spot the warning signs, start important conversations, and learn when to seek help. 

What are the warning signs?

Making suicidal statements is a warning sign. 

It is important to take suicidal statements seriously.  

There are statements such as, “I could just die!” which are meaningless, 

then there are calm statements made about ending one’s life that should always be 

taken seriously.

Counselling is an important preventative intervention. When Teens are feeling depressed, have withdrawn from their social life, or have no desire for fulfilment in their life, counselling can help. To understand Dr. Mike Dadson's counselling philosophy and approach, follow this link to a short video.

Follow these 3 links for more information about suicide.

1. About Suicide (Dr. Michael Dadson's web site)

2. Suicide Fact Sheet (Canadian Psychological Association)

3. Teen Suicide (American Psychological Association)

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Couples Counselling

Many couples find themselves at a crossroads at some point in their relationship. While they may love and care for each other deeply, communication issues may persist or prevent resolve with issues of contention or conflict. #Michaeldadson #Langley #counselling

View my video link to understand the benefits of couples Couples Counselling 

Mood Disorder Counselling

Dr Michael Dadson (Mike Dadson) discusses "What is a Mood Disorder"?

According to John Hopkins Medicine, there are various types of mood disorders:

• Major depression
  Feeling down, sad or hopeless, reduced interest in regular activities along with other symptoms lasting at least 2 weeks
  
  

• Dysthymia
  A recurring, low-grade, irritable or depressed mood lasting for a minimum of 2 years

 

• Bipolar Disorder
  A condition when you experience changes between periods of depression and mania or an elevated mood
  
  

• Mood disorder
  Can be related to another health condition, such as chronic illness, physical injury, or cancer
  
  

• Substance-induced mood disorder
  Occurs due to medicinal effects, abuse of drugs or alcohol, or toxin exposure

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Signs You May Have a Mood Disorder

When you are sad, tearful, irritable, or generally feeling down, in spite of what is happening 

in your day to day life, signals the presence of a mood disorder.

 

 

"Suffering from a mood disorder can take away your interest in socializing, eliminate joy, often leave you in tears, cause you to be or fell angry frequently, reduce your energy or motivation, or leave you feeling overwhelmed or exhausted ",  states Dr Dadson.

 

In order to treat a mood disorder, Dr Mike Dadson will review your issues and needs, then suggest a counselling distinct plan for your recovery. 

 

Dr Michael Dadson has more than 30 years of experience counselling and is a registered clinical counsellor (RCC) with significant experience in treating and counselling those affected by mood disorders, depression, trauma, PTSD and PTSD recovery.

 

To contact Dr Michael Dadson or to book an appointment, click here.

 

 6 Links and Professional Profiles for Dr Dadson 

1. BCACC British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors
2. CCPA - Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association
3. Psychology Today
4. University of British Columbia – Final PhD Defence (CNPS)
5. Google Scholar
6. Three Best Rated (rated best in Langley for marriage counselling

Understanding Couples Counselling

According to Dr. Michael Dadson "Couples who are experiencing difficulty in their relationship, often need guidance and support to find their way back to each other".

Dr. Michael Dadson notes:

Divorce is all too often one of the most expensive times in our life. However, research shows with the proper therapy and a trained clinical counsellor couples can achieve long lasting positive results that can make an enormous difference in the connection couples share. Couples counselling is extremely satisfying as the effort put into a relationship brings rewards that can be life lasting.

Overall, Dr. Dadson believes that couples counseling is important because it offers couples the tools and guidance they need to overcome challenges, improve their relationship, and build a more fulfilling and enduring partnership. 

6 Reasons Why Couples Counselling is Important

Dr. Michael Dadson recognizes the following:

Overall, Dr. Dadson believes that couples counseling is important because it offers 

couples the tools and guidance they need to overcome challenges, improve their relationship, 

and build a more fulfilling and enduring partnership. 

In the video below Dr. Michael Dadson reviews the benefits of couples counselling.

Couples Group Counselling

ADDRESSING THE NEED FOR COUPLES
COMMUNICATION SKILLS – LANGLEY, BC

Dr. Michael Dadson has created a new Couples Group Counselling program for couples in response to the critical need for couples to build communication skills. These skills can be learned either in group or through individual sessions.

 

Education

Dr. Michael Dadson (Mike Dadson), specializes in father son relationships, trauma, veterans, and PTSD recovery. In  2013 Dr. Dadson received his Ph.D. in Counselling Psychology from the University of British Columbia in 2013.

·         Michael Dadson's Final Ph. D, defence  

About Dr. Michael Dadson

Serving as an Adjunct Professor at the University of British Columbia, and as an advisor to the Centre for Group Counselling and Trauma from 2014 -2018, Dr. Dadson has an extensive academic, research and treatment history in men’s, Veterans and first responders mental health issues, father son relationships, depression, anxiety, acute stress, eating disorders, dissociation.

• Publications
• Bio, certifications, and licences
• Counselling Videos
• Gentle Currents Therapy Counselling Videos

Professional Profiles:

• BC Association of Clinical Counsellors
• Academia
• Google Scholar
• Three Best Rated
• Psychology Today

Dr. Dadson's Web Sites:

Trauma Therapy Clinic: Trauma, PTSD, trauma recovery insights, impacts, issues, questions, and answers. 

Langley Couples Counselling: Relationship questions and answers, counselling methods for couples and relationship insights.

Dr. Mike Dadson: Types of Therapy Used in Counselling

Couples Counselling Research

There are several well-established researchers and sources contribute to the body of knowledge supporting couples counseling:

John Gottman's Research: Dr. John Gottman is a renowned figure in the field of couples therapy. His extensive research on marital stability and relationship satisfaction, including the "Gottman Method," has greatly influenced couples counseling practices.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, EFT is a widely recognized and empirically supported approach to couples therapy. Research studies on EFT have demonstrated its effectiveness in improving relationship quality and emotional bonds.

Drs. Markman, Stanley, and Blumberg's Work: These researchers have contributed significantly to couples counseling, particularly through their development of the PREP (Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program) and other evidence-based interventions for couples.

BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC): As a member of The BCACC, Dr. Dadson highlights their directory of marriage therapists/counsellors who have met specific criteria for training and effectiveness in couples counseling. This resource highlights the importance of selecting qualified therapists for successful outcomes.

American Psychological Association (APA): The APA provides guidelines and resources related to couples therapy, including research-based information, publications, and articles on the topic.

Visit me at Langley Couples Counselling to learn more about couples counselling. 

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Looking for a clinical counsellor in BC? Follow the link to learn how to find a counsellor that is suited to you.

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Depression in Youth and Counselling Support

There has been an overwhelming need for mental health support for youth and adults over the course of the pandemic. Incidence across our country and in  the US have reached crisis levels. 

Follow the link to understand how counselling can help support you or your family. 

https://michaeldadson.info/adjustment-issues-counseling-in-langley/

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What Preparations Do We Make for Post Covid19

What are your thoughts on the needs as we move into the next phase of Covid19 fallout.

COVID-19 is a pandemic of disproportionate magnitude. Its devastating effect seems to have a more significant impact on the emerging economies like India and the rest of SE Asia, which also has regions harbouring some of the world's highest population density living under poor socio-economic condition.

 

Follow the link below to read more.

https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6808981238859235328/ 

A paper from Academia discussing preparations for post Covid1

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"The latest peer-reviewed studies within psychology and related fields"

Interesting research summary articles with links to publications from the American Psychological Society.

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Topics include: 

New take on extraversion 

Faculty mindset predicts student engagement 

Slow Lies

Seeking what might have been 

And more interesting news on psychological research!

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"How to Get to the Heart of Resistance with Marsha Linehan" - YouTube.

Addressing Resistance in Clients. 

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Getting at the heart of a client's resistance is important in their mental health journey. 

Here are a few tips from Marsha Linehan.

 "How to Get to the Heart of Resistance with Marsha Linehan" -YouTube. 

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19-year-old who aged out of foster care system adopted by former caseworker

19-year-old who aged out of foster care system adopted by former caseworker - ABC News

Consider becoming a foster parent in British Columbia to make a difference in the life of a child. Children aging out foster care can also be at risk. 

It is important to support children coming into the system and when they leave. To find out more about what you can do to become a foster parent, go to:                                     https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/family-social-supports/fostering/why-foster-in-bc/how-to-become-a-foster-parent-in-bc  

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Stories of "Self" and their Implications for Treatment | Gail Simon - Academia.edu

This is a great article and diagram offering insights to "the models of self"  and , which ideas that impact decisions around therapeutic models and the theories surrounding clients who seek help.

Stories of "Self" and their Implications for Treatment | Gail Simon - Academia.edu

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3 Surviving Covid19 Stress and Self Care Links

4 Helpful Links for Surviving Covid19

Living through a pandemic brought a variety of stressors into our daily lives. Between, school and workplace closures, required isolation, and much uncertainty, many are feeling overwhelmed by stress.

Below are 4 links to help you manage and deal with stress or the aftermath of Covid19.

 1. The American Psychiatric Association (APA), is a well established national organization and a trusted website. 

2. Doctor Michael Dadson's web site.

3. APA: Delirium, PTSD, brain fog: The aftermath of surviving COVID-19

4. APA: Self Care for Students  

Dr. Michael Dadson, PhD Explains Four Underlying Causes of Depression and Anxiety

How can counselling help me deal with stress?

Dr. Michael Dadson will work with you to address a range of issues including anxiety, depression, stress, chronic pain, self-injury, and trauma-related conditions. In your counselling sessions, Dr. Dadson will build an environment of safety, curiosity, and non-judgment in which to explore your inner and social worlds to understand your needs for a therapy plan to allow you to engage more fully in a satisfying life.

8 Professional Profiles and Links: Dr. Michael Dadson 

1. Registered clinical counsellor (RCC) BC Association of Clinical Counselors.  
2. University of British Columbia profile  Doctor Michael Dadson
3. Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association member 
4. Psychology Today profile
5. University of British Columbia – Final PhD Defence (CNPS)
6. Three Best Rated Counsellors in Langley, BC
7. About Me 
8. Google Scholar Articles